Relationship/Sex fixing Marriage

It is not too late: You can rescue your relationship and reconnect with your partner. It may not be easy, but here's Dr. Phil's advice on where to even begin.

Recognize that you have the power to redefine the relationship. Even if you feel like a victim, you play a role in setting up what is and isn't acceptable in your marriage.

Stop the ego-driven power struggle. Don't be a "right-fighter." Is it worth destroying your marriage so you can be right in every argument?

Make a promise to work on your marriage every single day — not just during the bad times, but also during the good ones.

Make a plan together to renegotiate the relationship. Even patterns that you've had for 20 years can be changed.

Your vows are about commitment, not method. If the methods you've been using aren't working, it's time to try new ones.

"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boost, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self- seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, aways hopes, always perseveres."

Such a cliche, but it is one of the grandest descriptions of love. Love is a feeling that could never be defined exactly. It is a simple word that can only be felt but cannot be given exact meaning and sometimes it cannot be given justice. What really is LOVE?

Many are mislead by the word LOVE. For some it is happiness, but for others it is misery and sufferings. It never fails, but then it hurts. Too many counterfiets, it maybe because for everything that god has made, the devil has improvised a counterfiet. But do you know the counterfiet of LOVE? Well it is infatuation.

In order for us humans to discern the counterfiet from the genuine, let us examine some differences.

• Infatuation is ruled by feelings, but love is not controlled by feelings. It does not do anything and everything it feels. Rather in true love, the feelings are under the control of principle.
• Infatuation is in a hurry, but love takes time-time to know and time to grow, for their is no "shortcut."
• Infatuation is obsessed with externals but love is concerned with internals.

Many of the Problems that destroyed marriages today result from a lack of awareness of the basic differences between male and female, and the failure to implement strategies to deal this differences.

In order to gap the differences each partner should know each other better

Ten things every wife should know about her husband

1. He is proud to be a man
2. Job success is supreme
3. He knows love in tangible things
4. He makes decisions differently
5. A man likes his wife to stay attractive
6. The man receives visual stimulation
7. He needs sexual expression of love
8. He struggles with midlife challenges
9. The man secretly welcomes encouragement
10. He is sensitive to T.L.C.(tender, loving care)

Just as it is important for every husband to understand his wife, it is vital for every wife to comprehend her husband. If a couple is to experience maximum marital success, the woman should master the science of manhood.

Ten things every husband should know about his wife

1. She questions her self-worth sometimes
2. A wife cherishes her husband's expression of appreciation
3. She likes to have a "house-husband"
4. A woman changes mood and feelings
5. She is a survivor
6. She is intuitive
7. A woman is stimulated by feelings of love
8. She enjoys varied expressions of love
9. She needs new eggs in the empty nest
10. The wife needs to hear the precious words: "I LOVE YOU"